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Psychic Energy Vampires
I've ceaselessly used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to explain a person who extracts energy from others in an effort to survive in their world. We've got all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it just isn't usually a aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator is just not normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator typically feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic people are usually energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It is really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling round totally different people. Start making mental notes. Some people will leave you feeling completely happy, energized, or nurtured. Others will leave you feeling drained, tired, depressed, indignant or confused in some way.
If the one that leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you more often than not than they are likely an energy vampire. You might enter the interaction or dialog feeling good about something and in the course of the course of the dialog you're reworked into feeling bad. For example: Say you just obtained a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go house from work and you're high with excitement and share the good news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion after which says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't clearly cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" However by some means you are feeling that you haven't been heard and that he doesn't really share in your excitement. In truth it seems more that he could care less. You are feeling a plummet in your energy and out of the blue you are not feeling very excited anymore. You might respond by saying "No I have not seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to focus on the bottle asking you if you are sure you didn't take it because you will have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was reduce very short. In truth if you want to celebrate at all you'll need to call a pal who truly cares about you and your good news. But by now it's possible you'll not really feel much like celebrating. You may feel that your promotion really is not that big of a deal after all. Particularly for the reason that particular person closest to you would not appear to think it is.
Whenever you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether or not from a friend, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a spouse or partner, it's possible you'll be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire is just not essentially a psychic person but moderately somebody who preys on the psychic energy field around a person.
I'm very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. However up to now, I did not know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was going on with me and why I usually felt drained when round a lot of people, or sure folks especially. Now I'm pretty aware of what's going on around me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet a whole lot of psychic vampires who appear to be just regular people going about their business. But here's what I notice. These type of individuals seem to want something from me. I notice the conversations tend to be one sided the place they're doing all of the talking and I am doing all the listening. There isn't a true interaction. If I attempt to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I really feel as if I am not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they proceed their dialog as if I have never said a word.
After I ask myself what the intention of these folks might be I see they're looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, try to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I start to really feel aggravated, drained, or tired, I immediately excuse myself and leave the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed every other. We share energy. One in all us might be feeling down and the other can encourage us and say things to assist us which can carry us up. Different instances we're the ones serving to and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy trade that is mutually beneficial. However with energy vampires, there is no give and take, only take. They have no energy of their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He would not have an inside life and isn't spiritually related to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning tips on how to go within and cultivate his own inner garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we need from within if given the suitable vitamins and building blocks. However to illustrate a person eats nothing however junk meals after which takes loads of vitamins. He is counting on this exterior substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a mobile level. If he really needed to be healthy he would learn that he needed to cleanse out all the toxins which have been accumulating from years of bad consuming and then start taking in high nutrient dense meals to rebuild his body.
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